"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Am i trippin or is this reason for concern

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I get a Duplicate Text from my girl this morning simply saying Are You Up Yet?

A duplicate text only comes up when it was forwarded to more than one person. Makes me kinda wonder, I asked why was my text a duplicate and she said Im not sure. :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's nothing, I would text 5 people at a time in the morning to ask them when they are going for coffee.
 
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that's happened to me dude. Maybe she thought she didn't hit the send button, or accidentally hit it again. Ask to see her cell phone and just play with it a little bit (sercretly finding the outbox to text messages). Why would she text two guys to meet at the same time/morning? Don't worry.
 
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If she press send twice it woulda sent to me twice.
Shes at school and she wasnt asking to meet up... she was asking two people if they were awake? wtf
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess your right i just been real stressed lately. Been arguing alot with her, called her while i was at work and she was on the other line and now this. I was trying to put two and two together.
 
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