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Am I too paranoid about cold sores/facial herpes?

fruitopiax

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OK so I was on a date with a girl today right and I kept looking at her face and upper lip to see any sort of dot or blemish or whatever. Cold sores are obvious right? I saw like a tiny dot on her upper lip in the area a guys mustache would be in. This isn't a cold sore right? Aren't they usually kinda big and filled up and usually on the lips?
 

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betterthandead

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A cold sore is basically like a pimple on the lip. I have some dots on my upper lip, and some people think it's a cold sore but after awhile when they keep seeing my face having the same thing it's nothing but just genetics rather than a disease.
 

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Oh god..... I dont know what kind of coincidence this is, every webpage I look there is something about coldsores/herpes, i see it everwhere now its like a nightmare..... Its driving me nuts cuz i just made out with this **** with cold sores and i had no fukin idea, couldnt see **** but her sister told me she gets it. And my lip has been tingling and itching FUKIN SKANKS.........hopefully its all in my head and i didnt catch ****. the only bright side i can think of if i got it then i dont have to worry about kissing skanks cuz i already got it ? :( I already cut contact with the b1tch ever since i found out though, the very next day after we met up.... I made a porno the very night too. she better hope i dont have it.
 

Cry For Love

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relax man facial herpes isnt that bad. i have it and i only had cold sores when i was a little kid(below ten) and now ive only had one since then and it happened 5 months ago.
 

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SharinganUser said:
There is no way to know unless she shows you her most recent test results.
Well there is one trick that my favorite and wisest teacher teached me a long time ago. (Actually he never gave his class, we were mainly armwrestling and talking about random sh*t :), these things were sometimes the subject)

The trick is to go swimming with the girl you aren't certain of to have it, but it has to be a swimming pool with a lot of chloor. If she has facial herpes it will come up. If she has it, do not, (and he repeated it like I am now=>) DO NOT let her blow you! :D
 
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