"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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am I the ^ssh0l3?

Demodulate

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senario...

we had plans saturday night for dinner.. I call her in the AM to see whats going on an to finalise the times.. she says she doesnt know what shes doing so I make plans to go to the movies with my friends... saw sin city.. good flick, anywho I call her back and give her the times, and even invite her, but shes kinda pissed.. so whatever..

I get out of the movies and call to see whats going on and shes really pissed... shes not coming to dinner. fine whatever.. go out with the boys.. get a call at 11pm shes crying and wants to comeover.. but im out, didnt drive, and at a club.. I calm her down, apparently she got into a fight with her friend she had made plans to do something with after she got mad at me.

next morning I go to a big race.. she calls me and I have to cut her short cause I cant hear a damn thing thats going.. I am at a damn race track..

call her on the way home from the track, leave a message. no response, call the next day at night, and she tells me shes pissed cause I cut her off on the phone the day before... then cuts me short, and says shes going to call back.. calls back and then says oh, i have to go my TV show is back on...

anyway she says im an ^assH0l3

but I dont see anything worng with what I did...

infact i think shes acting like an idiot...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage

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Your did nothing wrong. You offered her a date and she rejected your offer and therefore you had every right to do your own thing.

Sounds to me like your girl is a princess who wants to be the centre of attension. Now she is playing games that when you have time to talk to her, she acts buzy. Don't fall for her sh1t test and don't put up with it.

P.S
Word about cell phones - just because this great technology is available at your disposal does not mean that a girl can call you anytime when you are having fun and ruin it. Turn off the cell phone and when you are done with your fun check your messages and if you wish then return her call. Doing that will ensure that woman will not drive you insane because for a woman chit chatting on a cellphone is a fun activity and for a guy it should not be an activity, it should be used in order to set up an activity.
 

Kaine

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No she is been immature

I'm assuming you explained every thing to her in black in white, why you cut her off etc.

I would call her on her princess behaviour

Don't back down on this, she will lose respect for you

I am wondering how you have been treating her for her to react this way. Does she know she can get a reaction out of you by acting up?

Kaine
 

Demodulate

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actually she tries to get a rise out of me all the time... and she hates it cause I dont respond...
 

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How old is she? Sound like some teenage sh*(. If she's not worth playing games with I would throw her out with the trash.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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