"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Am I the only one who likes sex on top the sheets?

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Don'tWannabeAWannabe

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Seriously, 4 of my ex-girlfriends didn't like to have sex on top of the sheets.

On our first nights we had sex, I'd come out of the shower, and they were hiding away under the sheets.

I would always say something like "Why are you hiding away under there?" or "You're beautiful/sexy. I want to see ALL of you."

But one girl blurted out "Ew, you like it ABOVE the sheets? That's so weird!"

What gives?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ENIGMA16

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Sometimes it's fun to turn the lights off and go under the sheets. :)

But they end up coming off anyways; who actually has sex under the sheets? That's just where you start, at most.
 
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SmoothTalker

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Wait people (other than prudes) actually do this? I thought it was just like that on tv because they can't show nudity.

Anyway I think I can count on one hand the number of times I've had sex in complete darkness or under the covers.

Personally I like seeing the nude hot chick I'm ****ing so the lights stay on, and I found the few times we tried under the sheets things would just get annoying and tangled up in them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think I've done it under the sheets like, twice because it was ****ing freezing. Body image problems or something? Too much TV? Who knows?
 
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when I am with a girl I want one who looks respectful naked. one that you can look at and be like this is nice. I want to see what I am doing and see her body. I hate going underneath the sheets. anyway if you want to know if you got a respectful looking g/f naked, the best test for this is if you wouldnt mind your boys seeing her naked.
 
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Hell, the last three times I've banged a chick, we weren't even in/on a bed. 1. Loveseat
2. Dryer
3. Sofa/ Floor

But yeah, the time under the sheets/ blankets is when its COLD! Then they come off in a minute anyway. How else is she gonna breathe when she's down there s*cking it?
 
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I have no preference, really. Wherever the moment hits is how I like sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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