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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Am I texting her too much?

soulforge

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Been seeing this girl around 3 or 4 weeks..

So far she seems like an ok girl... no major red flags, also not an attention hore..

I am thinking she might be possible girlfriend material..


I am texting her atleast once a day... usually she sends me a good morning text, we end up having a 5 minute text convo..

Then we message on a night for about 10mins...

Most of my messages to her are filthy sexual in nature.. and she gets turned on reading them..

We talk mostly dirty, and how she likes to be dominated by me..


My question... is it ok to text dirty pretty regular if she is enjoying it?

Or am I over texting.. will this eventually kill the attraction?
 

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SmooveMooves

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From what I read, it sounds perfect. Your text conversations are never to long and they're mostly freaky.

What you don't want to do is text a girl throughout the day having trivial conversations. You know, the ones that sound like:

Her:Hey.

You: Wassup?

Her: Nothing much, Wyd?

Etc.

Those conversations aren't even that bad per say, the main idea is just not to become a beta texting buddy.

For now, keep doing what you're doing, those freaky convos will lead to sex. Trust me, I know firsthand, with a virgin.
 

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Well most of what I text her, is very sexual in nature.. I play out fantasies for her..

Told her I would finger her puzzy in the back of a taxi ride.. so the taxi driver could watch us.. she got turned on to f****.. and wanted to come over and bang me silly..

I can tell she likes me, and wants more than just sex.. I just dont want to kill the attraction with over texting, or getting soppy with her..

I like her.. but need to keep the alpha frame..
 

soulforge

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Guys.. I am worried I could be texting this chick too much..

We usually have a chat by text every night... most times it is her whom initiates it..


I tend to keep most of my conversations sexual... where as she sends me some soppy text..

I like this chick.. but dont want to become too easily available...


Please give advice on texting? Been seeing her only one month
 

No.Danny

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Stoooop ****ing over analyzing this chick. This is how you sound like
"Guys she said hey today but only 1 y, she usually send 3, :cry: what does that mean?"
Stfu you little *****. Are you in ****ing highschool, send whatever the **** you want, whenever.
Don't be afraid to fail, you never fail you're doing it wrong
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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