"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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am i supposed to feel like sh!t

stoner1129

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well me and my gf broke up like a week ago but i guess when we were still going out she cheated on me with one of my friends, and just right now i feel lke sh!t, i feel pathetic and just idk, am i supposed to feel like this? just can anyone tell me anything to help me out
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, breaking up with someone can suck balls. But, you need to forget about the past and move on to the new chapter in your life!
 

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In a perfect world you wouldn't feel like sh!t.

You would say in your mind well she was clearly a piece of garbage and this is a dodged bullet and then you'd be thankful she cheated revealing her true colors and then you'd go and fvck her sister.

In this imperfect world however its perfectly natural for you to feel like sh!t as the image of the one you love has been shattered.

She is not what you thought her to be after all and now you mourn the dream of her that she was to you in your mind.

What you do from here is to mourn for a week or two if you need but before that cut the friend and this girl completely out of your life.

Both have made their choices already that they will sell you out and do not care one iota about you.

Any offered apologies are indeed a nice gesture but they will not change your resolve to cut the cancer out of your life completely of she and he.

Then after all the mourning and cutting contact is complete you then go and fvck her sister provided she has one that is willing and a whole host of other chicks to help with the moving on process.

Good luck soldier.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stoner1129

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yeah just thx i'm trying to get over it but the breaking up part hurt just a little bit, but when i found out about the cheating part that was when it really started to sting, it really makes me feel pathetic and everyhting
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Stoner .

Many girls cheated on me or just broke up with me for no reasons .
I always was thinking and overthinking about it for days and weeks WHAT I DID WRONG .

But now i say that ERROR is not in me . ERROR is on them .
Why blame myself for some cold b!tches ?

This was before .

Now i saw that the only secure way to get over breakup is to continue having fun and getting other girls . Just go out , approach , have fun and youll forget about her :D .
 

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stoner1129 said:
well me and my gf broke up like a week ago but i guess when we were still going out she cheated on me with one of my friends, and just right now i feel lke sh!t, i feel pathetic and just idk, am i supposed to feel like this? just can anyone tell me anything to help me out
Yeah it happens to all of us. You feel on top of the world and then your world comes crashing down.

Trust me, I've had some bad experiences. It took me almost half a year to get over my ex-girlfriend and I kept trying to get her back, and it always made things worse...

Wait, your friend cheated with your girlfriend. Why the **** are you still this guy's friend?
 

stoner1129

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no i'm not friends anymore with that ****ing *****, at the time i thought he was a friend but i guess not, guess i was wrong on a lot of things
 
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