"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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am i supposed to feel like sh!t

stoner1129

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well me and my gf broke up like a week ago but i guess when we were still going out she cheated on me with one of my friends, and just right now i feel lke sh!t, i feel pathetic and just idk, am i supposed to feel like this? just can anyone tell me anything to help me out
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, breaking up with someone can suck balls. But, you need to forget about the past and move on to the new chapter in your life!
 

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In a perfect world you wouldn't feel like sh!t.

You would say in your mind well she was clearly a piece of garbage and this is a dodged bullet and then you'd be thankful she cheated revealing her true colors and then you'd go and fvck her sister.

In this imperfect world however its perfectly natural for you to feel like sh!t as the image of the one you love has been shattered.

She is not what you thought her to be after all and now you mourn the dream of her that she was to you in your mind.

What you do from here is to mourn for a week or two if you need but before that cut the friend and this girl completely out of your life.

Both have made their choices already that they will sell you out and do not care one iota about you.

Any offered apologies are indeed a nice gesture but they will not change your resolve to cut the cancer out of your life completely of she and he.

Then after all the mourning and cutting contact is complete you then go and fvck her sister provided she has one that is willing and a whole host of other chicks to help with the moving on process.

Good luck soldier.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah just thx i'm trying to get over it but the breaking up part hurt just a little bit, but when i found out about the cheating part that was when it really started to sting, it really makes me feel pathetic and everyhting
 

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Stoner .

Many girls cheated on me or just broke up with me for no reasons .
I always was thinking and overthinking about it for days and weeks WHAT I DID WRONG .

But now i say that ERROR is not in me . ERROR is on them .
Why blame myself for some cold b!tches ?

This was before .

Now i saw that the only secure way to get over breakup is to continue having fun and getting other girls . Just go out , approach , have fun and youll forget about her :D .
 

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stoner1129 said:
well me and my gf broke up like a week ago but i guess when we were still going out she cheated on me with one of my friends, and just right now i feel lke sh!t, i feel pathetic and just idk, am i supposed to feel like this? just can anyone tell me anything to help me out
Yeah it happens to all of us. You feel on top of the world and then your world comes crashing down.

Trust me, I've had some bad experiences. It took me almost half a year to get over my ex-girlfriend and I kept trying to get her back, and it always made things worse...

Wait, your friend cheated with your girlfriend. Why the **** are you still this guy's friend?
 

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no i'm not friends anymore with that ****ing *****, at the time i thought he was a friend but i guess not, guess i was wrong on a lot of things
 
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