Ok, I have a 2 part question.
First. I have a close female friend of mine from back in my college days. We are both in our mid 30's, never been married. She is a total knockout(she models), and I have always had a thing for her.
Now back in my college days, The feelings were not mutual. (she was more on the wild side in those days). She now is a Christian like I am. We havent physically seen each other since college, but have continually stayed in contact with each other(almost daily).
Heres the catch. I was talking to her a couple of weeks ago and we got into the discussion of us both needing a vacation. I just through it out there that we should take a vaction together. She shocked me by saying yes. She would love for us to get together again for a week and go somewhere together. (The place we decided on was Vegas).
This leads to my second question. To be honest. I have never put a whole lot of faith that we will ever hook up. I havent lived my social life to think its in the stars, so I try to date. However, I always seem to meet someone that (A). She likes me, but Im not into her or (B) . Vice versa. Can I be subconscioulsy sabataging my social life because I am still trying to hook up with my Girl/friend from Collge? Please advise...
First. I have a close female friend of mine from back in my college days. We are both in our mid 30's, never been married. She is a total knockout(she models), and I have always had a thing for her.
Now back in my college days, The feelings were not mutual. (she was more on the wild side in those days). She now is a Christian like I am. We havent physically seen each other since college, but have continually stayed in contact with each other(almost daily).
Heres the catch. I was talking to her a couple of weeks ago and we got into the discussion of us both needing a vacation. I just through it out there that we should take a vaction together. She shocked me by saying yes. She would love for us to get together again for a week and go somewhere together. (The place we decided on was Vegas).
This leads to my second question. To be honest. I have never put a whole lot of faith that we will ever hook up. I havent lived my social life to think its in the stars, so I try to date. However, I always seem to meet someone that (A). She likes me, but Im not into her or (B) . Vice versa. Can I be subconscioulsy sabataging my social life because I am still trying to hook up with my Girl/friend from Collge? Please advise...