Am I stuck as a friend..... How do I build up the nerves to do or say something?

[ithero]

Truly an inspiring story, I hope you don't give up now.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

As demented and counterintuitive it might sound, a chick's true sexual attraction comes out towards a guy when she feels a little intimidated by him.

It hits on her primitive instincts of the passive-aggressive roles that link a man and a woman together.

Unfortuanetly, what this poor pathetic guy has done is made himself into a woman in her eyes. She's so f*cking comfortable with him that she'd rather talk to him than f*ck him!!!

You said you talk from 8 to 3? WHOLLY SH*T!

What this guy needs to do is just stop it. Let me say again. STOP IT.

He needs a cleansing.

Steps to Cleansing:

1. Rent some manly movies and watch them with some GUY friends.

-Scarface
-Fight Club
-GoodFellas ("If he even catches me looking at another guy, he'll kill me")
-American Psycho

Get some beers and remember what you are (a man, in case you forgot).

2. Go out and hit on other women. Picture yourself as an alpha male, a he-man. Instead of talking so damn much, touch her. More should be said through your actions than your words. That's the key to opening her up (in the midsection, I mean). Look deep in her eyes when talking to a girl. Don't have a goofy ass looking face either. Look stern, but relaxed. Look strong, but not like you're trying to prove something. Smile occasionally when you feel like it, which shouldn't be all that often. Make each word clear and concise. In general, fewer words, the better. Make your presence felt. Get into her "personal zone" (meaning within a couple feet of her). Let her FEEL your power (meaning she should subconsciously feel that she's talking to a man).

3. Stop with the lunch dates. This is just ridiculous, at least before you've banged her.

4. Stop with the phone calls. This is just ridiculous. In general, calls to a female (excluding grandmother, mother, aunt, etc) should go NO LONGER than 5 minutes. Shorter the better. If she starts trying to talk to you a lot on the phone, cut her off, tell her you need to get back to your WORK, and hang up. Don't get all f*cking dramatic with her.

Purpose of phone call=setting up date
Purpose of date=making her sexually attracted to you

 

[dissendent]

Thanks guys!!!

Well, its 11:40 over here on the west side and I just got home from her place. Sucks having to wake up at 6AM......
She made me dinner for the first time and she cooked up a mean ass pasta.

I'll be honest, nothing too sexual happened at her place. All we did was eat dinner and watch "Harold and Kumar go to White Castle". Although, towards the end of the movie, we started to kiss and explore each others body but no sex. Not yet.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
As demented and counterintuitive it might sound, a chick's true sexual attraction comes out towards a guy when she feels a little intimidated by him.

It hits on her primitive instincts of the passive-aggressive roles that link a man and a woman together.

Unfortuanetly, what this poor pathetic guy has done is made himself into a woman in her eyes. She's so f*cking comfortable with him that she'd rather talk to him than f*ck him!!!

You said you talk from 8 to 3? WHOLLY SH*T!

What this guy needs to do is just stop it. Let me say again. STOP IT.

He needs a cleansing.

Steps to Cleansing:

1. Rent some manly movies and watch them with some GUY friends.

-Scarface
-Fight Club
-GoodFellas ("If he even catches me looking at another guy, he'll kill me")
-American Psycho

Get some beers and remember what you are (a man, in case you forgot).

2. Go out and hit on other women. Picture yourself as an alpha male, a he-man. Instead of talking so damn much, touch her. More should be said through your actions than your words. That's the key to opening her up (in the midsection, I mean). Look deep in her eyes when talking to a girl. Don't have a goofy ass looking face either. Look stern, but relaxed. Look strong, but not like you're trying to prove something. Smile occasionally when you feel like it, which shouldn't be all that often. Make each word clear and concise. In general, fewer words, the better. Make your presence felt. Get into her "personal zone" (meaning within a couple feet of her). Let her FEEL your power (meaning she should subconsciously feel that she's talking to a man).

3. Stop with the lunch dates. This is just ridiculous, at least before you've banged her.

4. Stop with the phone calls. This is just ridiculous. In general, calls to a female (excluding grandmother, mother, aunt, etc) should go NO LONGER than 5 minutes. Shorter the better. If she starts trying to talk to you a lot on the phone, cut her off, tell her you need to get back to your WORK, and hang up. Don't get all f*cking dramatic with her.

Purpose of phone call=setting up date
Purpose of date=making her sexually attracted to you

Excellent post. If a man is going to talk to a woman from 8pm to 3am, he should make sure he is talking to her naked, in bed (together) inbetween rounds of Kama Sutric action. Not on the phone. I like number 2, rent Scarface, and watch how aggressive he is with Elvira. From the time he sees her in Frank's mansion, he knows he wants her, and then he starts fukking with her head at the Babylon, while dancing with her. She is a cokehead, arrogant, and a rude biatch, but she seems to get off on Tony's agressiveness. He keeps on at the car dealership, and finally tells her his intentions at poolside. He doesnt get a "no" when he tells her he wants to put a baby inside her. Finally, he hits on her in front of Frank, when Frank gets pissed, well, it's all over for him. Tony personally introduces him to a 9mm, and then, in a surreal scene of pure DJism, he goes into her bedroom, and tells her, "Come on, your coming with me" and she does. The next scenes are of their dating, and consequently, a shot of Tony in a tux, her in a wedding gown, getting married and making out at poolside! Now I am not suggesting assassinating your comp, but Tony Montana is a true DJ.