Am I starting this off too much in her frame?

[TheNewStyle123]

What's up guys.

I went out with a Brazilian chick tonight. Real cutie. HB8 IMO. We got a drink and an app at a place close to my apartment. The conversation was great, plenty of kino, and we ended up making out at the end of the night after I walked her to her car. She seemed really into me and wanted to see me again.

She was texting me a little when she got home. I went to set up the second date (dinner at my place on Sunday) and she said she still "does not feel comfortable" to come to my place. Hey, no big, quality girls want to wait a little more and that's fine. It's only the second date and I can understand not wanting to come to my place already (although I have never really had an issue with a girl saying this before..).

But she then said "probably after some dates, but not yet." I think I am going to try to find something free or inexpensive to do Sunday night instead. And then maybe dinner next week.

After that, by the fourth date if she still does not want to come to my place for dinner I feel like that should be grounds for nexting. I don't want to get duped into paying for this girl to go on 5+ dates with me, then finally coming to my place to MAYBE bang.

However, she did put her credit card down and offered to pay when the check came. She seems pretty interested in me and not just using for dates. As @Hank Moody pointed out, my problem is I keep attracting girls that really want to date me. This could be another one of those situations.

Idk. What do you guys think should be my next step?

Thanks boys.

 

[Robert28]

What’s wrong with attracting girls that want to date you? Isn’t that the goal? Every guy wishes he had those problems

 

[TheNewStyle123]

What’s wrong with attracting girls that want to date you? Isn’t that the goal? Every guy wishes he had those problems

LMAO I mean you make a fair point… but that had literally been the case with the past 6 girls I have went on dates with (all Brazilian or Hispanic). They have given off strong relationship vibes. Future talk, calling me “papi” and shiit, saying they can’t wait to see me/see me again (not all of these have ended in us banging of course smh).

But, I definitely want to bang this girl. It’s funny, I feel like I am almost deceiving her in the sense that I am making her believe that I am this really dateable guy that wants to be exclusive with her. But shiit, what do these women want? On the first or second date you’re already asking what my intentions are? One of the most valuable lessons I learned from TRM was being covert and playing their “games”…

 

[TheNewStyle123]

Get that out of your head. There should be no guilt. How many nice guys have these chicks pulled 180s on? They deceived the guys and themselves, because they all of a sudden were not "feeling it". Get yours man.

That’s kind of where I’m at man.. I figure what the hell. They don’t think twice about doing this shiit, so why should I be the one feeling so guilty?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

But, I definitely want to bang this girl. It’s funny, I feel like I am almost deceiving her in the sense that I am making her believe that I am this really dateable guy that wants to be exclusive with her.

 

[TheNewStyle123]

LMAOOO dude love Dennis. The ultimate villain.