am i spinning a few BPD's ?

[derby1]

i have a few women recently and there behaviour ive been taking note of take in mind, were only weeks in....1 of the 3 deffo has no dad!! the other 2 seem a normal upbringing

* they are very jealous in a short period of time,

* Im THE ONE in a short period of time

* they message me on different platforms if i havent replied within 30 minutes

* They figure extreme **** out in there head if you say one word slightly wrong in a convo, then they go quiet for a good day

* they would drop paracetomal off to ya in the middle of the antarctic one day then the day after total polar opposite

* they *** way to easily for my liking like something weirds going off in there head

*Ive also noticed theres never any mention of other men on there fb even LTR's

i know not to get emotionally invested and i walk away from any drama

Just looking for feedback to add to my artillery of knowledge

 

[Infern0]

Sounds like most girls these days. Nothing in there would lead me to belive BPD

Obvious BPD clues are really bad self harm scars and you can just TELL they have got a load of demons

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

The thing to remember about so-called 'personality disorders', is that they are just vague attempts by the psychiatric profession to quantify human behaviour that is considered anything other than 'neutral'.

Needless to say, most reported 'cases' of personality disorders (especially on this site) are not disordered at all, they are just emotional women being emotional.

There is however a difference between being emotional and emotionally unstable, and this is where men get confused and start making their pop-psychological diagnoses. Emotionality just pertains to the normal hormonal fluctuations in a woman's body and mind; she is 'neutral' most of the time, but just has moments at certain times of the month. Emotional instability is more consistent in day to day behaviour and as you say, does often pertain to familial disruption.

* they are very jealous in a short period of time,

* Im THE ONE in a short period of time

These two I would say are exemplary of emotional instability. The rest might just be normal emotionality, or circumstantial unless seen persistently.

-Further to add to the daddy issue; all women are looking for a man to meet or usually exceed the experience they had with their father, even if they had / have a healthy relationship.

-Further to add to the personality disorder issue; we can only really consider a personality as disordered if there is physical aggression towards others or the self (including persistent substance abuse) apparent. Almost everything else is either just emotionality or instability.

 

[derby1]

These two I would say are exemplary of emotional instability

ive had a couple vanish/ghost over my time and they all ticked those two boxes of jealous....and IM the ONE...even arranging dates not vica versa

so we can presume theres some kind of emotional immaturity/instability going on, and theyve **** the pot at a relationship progressing