"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I screwed?

Wolve

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I was pretty into this chick (Girl 1) in one of my classes. She and I went back and forth with the touching/flirting/etc. I got her number and just totally ****ed it up. I called her like 5 times and didn't return and apologized for calling and some other stupid ****. She instantly got turned away, haha.

So, now this other girl (Girl 2) in my class is into me, but I don't really feel anything for her. I just kind of shrugged her off most of the time and she just flat out told me she liked me today. This girl is friends with the first girl, though, and I know they talk about me. Girl 1 tried to set me up with Girl 2 so I figure my chances with the first one is ****ed.

Any way to salvage this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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To get that first girl's interest again? Not really..
 

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be open to all girls in this case girl #2. when a girl sees you giving other girls a good time they always get jealous. why? girl #2 is going to be telling her your such a good guy, your everything a girl needs. be friendly with all girls always. I don't suggest going extreme like smooching girl #2 in girl #1's face. But there are times you can make jealousy a positive way. Remember be open to all girls and you will see the results. By the end of the week girl #1 is going to be over you. There's always some girl maybe even more than what you expected that you will get there attention. Get to know every girl you can, they all got connections ;)
 

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i don't really want to lead this girl (2) on, though. i still generally play around with her, but i kind of cut it back so she doesn't think i'm that interested, which i'm not.
 
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