"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I right for thinking this story is sketch?

Exodus99

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Earlier this week, I was visiting my girlfriend of 4 months (we live one hour apart) and while I was there, one night a random number texted her saying "You" so she replied "Me? Who is this?" and they responded "*name* What's up?". She deleted the message and I asked her who he is, and she goes onto tell me that he was a customer at the pet store she works at and that, earlier this year before her and I started dating, they exchanged numbers and started texting eachother because she thought he "seemed nice" but also that she stopped replying quickly and deleted his number after finding out he's perverted and she said he was saying "You should come over and see my dog sometime". She told me she also believes he messaged her the day before I came there saying "I want your *****"

After hearing this, I quickly remembered that not even a month ago, she called me after work and we were talking about eachothers day and she said a customer wrote his number down and said "you should come over and see my dog sometime" and then threw the number out. Perplexed, I reminded her of this story and she said it was him. But that honestly makes no sense to me.

First of all, if they exchanged numbers way back, why is he giving her his number again if he thinks she has it?

If he is giving her HIS number, isn't that a little odd he's the one texting? Normally, you don't hand someone your number and then text them. You'd text them if they gave you their number.

This is pretty messed up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheException

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Quit being dramatic.

If she cheats on you....you laugh at her and dump her. Period. You cant prevent a girl from cheating. That being said...its not a big deal unless you have insecurities about jealously/other guys hitting on your girlfriend. GIRLS ARE GOING TO GET HIT ON. Your job is to make her so attracted to YOU, that she wouldnt even dare think about talking to another guy, let alone cheat on you. By you interrogating her, you showed a little jealousy. Just laugh it off to yourself and never bring it up again.
 

devilkingx2

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wow, talk about over analysis...

whatever the reason, it's probably on him(maybe HE doesn't know that, or didn't realize that, or thought she wasn't responding because she didn't have/lost/threw out his number)

either way, you've got nothing to fear and nothing to worry about as of now, so forget about it.
 
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