"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I right for believing this?

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thewarrior

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That every female over the age of 18 is a slut? At my age (24), girls most likely have been all around town. They probably had more than 30 sex partners, while I only been with a few girls. I just hate the very thought of being with a girl who's lived that type of life. Maybe it's just jealousy. I missed out on opportunities to fornicate with lots of chicks because I was the nice guy, and I guess that I'm resentful to the chicks who ****ed around a lot.

I really want to meet a girl who ****ed no more than ten guys, but is that possible in 2009?

My real solution to my problem is start approaching and ****ing as many chicks as possible to make up for all those years I was a nice guy. Then when I can say I slept with more than 30 girls, I will feel better about myself.

Oh, just to clarify, I don't care how many guys a girl slept with if I just use her for sex. I'm talking about a girl that becomes my girlfriend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It really depends what you call a slut.

"Oh but I was druuuuunk"
etc

Yes, most girls these days do get around quite a bit, and personally, I don't get involved in relationships with girls like that (which explains why I don't have many exclusive relationships.)
 
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xdreamz

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i think they were more 'sluttier' when they were younger when they wanted to experiment and party more.
 
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Yes, girls like to fvck a lot more than guys do-- they just won't say anything about it out loud while you are sitting there thinking that they are innocent angels. When I realized this was the case, it made it a lot easier to get the female to sleep with you. Suddenly, there was no pressure because she wanted it already, you just had to provide a few necessary things to make it take place.
 
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thewarrior said:
That every female over the age of 18 is a slut? At my age (24), girls most likely have been all around town. They probably had more than 30 sex partners, while I only been with a few girls. I just hate the very thought of being with a girl who's lived that type of life. Maybe it's just jealousy. I missed out on opportunities to fornicate with lots of chicks because I was the nice guy, and I guess that I'm resentful to the chicks who ****ed around a lot.

I really want to meet a girl who ****ed no more than ten guys, but is that possible in 2009?
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Sounds like you're surrounding yourself with girls of that type, or are putting yourself in environments where girls of that type like to be (clubs, bars, etc.)

Not every girl is a slvt like this board often likes to portray. There are good women out there, but (of course) you've still gotta be a man and keep your game strong to get them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WhtRbt

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Let me guess... you meet most of your women at the bar/club/party scene?
 
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