"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I really that dumb?

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there are 2 girls in my class that are EXTREMELY hot. 2 of the hottest girls in the school at that.

I'm pretty social proofed, and have a lot of friends in that class and etc and acted really cool and dj. I didnt talk to those girls THAT much, hardly ever go into deep conversation, but i was pretty sure they were into me...

Things that i missed:

I smiled at her, and she immediately came up to me and sat beside me, but i didnt talk to her (someone pulled her away (****block))

I winked at this girl, and she just keeps STARRING at me... like a dog... (DDB) and i completely missed this LOL. we starred at each other for like 15 seconds, and then i backed down... then i winked at the other girl and she DID THE EXACT SAME THING LOL!

i looked away from her too... really sucks.

This girl's by her locker and im checking her out. All of a sudden she starts to just STARE at me for no reason... bell rings and i walk away...

I went online to ask this girl why so many people were starring at me, ends up, this is an IOI.

What do you think of this, and on a scale of 1-10 how pathetic was i?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by Nex
You're HOT.

I'd give you a 8/10.
lol probably since he has the two hottest girls in school staring at him. This is why we should replace the 'dumb' in the thread title with STUPID!
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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8/10 dont get stared at that much. Im a 9.1-4 depending on the day... and I get checked out by 8's and below nonstop. 9's RARELY "check me out" untill I begin talking with them, or untill they hear me sarging someone else.

Youre prolly REALLY good looking... with a mix of popular these girls WANT YOU. So go get their ****ing #s and then have sex with them... understand?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm social proofed quite a bit... that's probably why...

I met one of the hottest teachers in a bank (but i was with my dad ******) and i spoke with her a little, and she probably saw how i was chatting with people in the bank (ran into some people i knew) and she did give me some ioi's (but i was with family :mad:)

so today i saw her at an assembly, and i was walking and she was sitting down, and she just kept starring at me, and i just starred back at her, but didnt want to make a move in front of everyone or else she'd have a MAJOR *****shield on...

heh, i dont know what i would give myself in looks- im not a model or anything. but i do constantly try to improve myself, and a lot of people call me a metrosexual for some reason... wonder if that has anyhting to do with it...

Oh well, hopefully i can get other hot girls to do the same to me :p
 

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A TEACHER?!

What is ioi?
 

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Originally posted by Zaine
A TEACHER?!

What is ioi?
Yeah. I have no idea what's going on in this thread cause I have no idea what IOI means.
 
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