themiltman
Don Juan
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Long story short, I met a girl(HB7) at the library. I just started a random conversation that lasted 2 hours and I left with her number. A week passes by and I text her with the intentions of going out with her. We text back and forth and she mentions that she's free on friday nights, saturday nights and sometimes monday nights.
So we ended up going out on a saturday. Everything went good at the bar we went to. We eventually ended up at my apartment where I think I messed up......I'm not going to lie i'm a weed smoker, but i'm not what I would call a "functional weed smoker". Meaning I can't act normal when i'm high I start overanalyzing things. Now everything was going good with HB7 and we went back to my apartment I thought I could handle smoking with her since she smokes too. It sounded good in theory........
About 30 minutes after we smoked I started overthinking things. Where as before I knew I had the cat in the bag now I started doubting things. I ended up kissing her back at my place and she kissed me back but after that I froze I didn't know what the **** to do. The weed had me doubting myself. So we finished up with the movie and I took her home. About a hour after I dropped her off she text me that she really enjoyed herself and she had a good time.
I forgot to mention she has count them 1,2,3 kids so she's nothing to get serious about just something to do everyonce in a while. I text her last Monday looking to set something up for the weekend and she switches her availability on me. She text me that it's hard to hang out on the weekends since sometimes her childs father doesn't get the kids. She gives me a counter-offer she tells me shes available during the day when her kids are in school. Now this is all fine and dandy, but how is one week she said she's available on the weekends now she is saying it's hard to get out on the weekends and she available during the day.
The answer is obvious I should of never smoked but what do you think? Has any chick switched up their avavilability on you before? The last text I sent her when she switched up her availability was "OK cool I work a lot of days this week but im sure we'll figure something out. That was last week Thursday and we haven't talked since and I don't plan on texting her.....Am I playing this situation the right way? I figure the best thing I can do at this point is nothing, or do I accept her invitation to hang out during the day?
So we ended up going out on a saturday. Everything went good at the bar we went to. We eventually ended up at my apartment where I think I messed up......I'm not going to lie i'm a weed smoker, but i'm not what I would call a "functional weed smoker". Meaning I can't act normal when i'm high I start overanalyzing things. Now everything was going good with HB7 and we went back to my apartment I thought I could handle smoking with her since she smokes too. It sounded good in theory........
About 30 minutes after we smoked I started overthinking things. Where as before I knew I had the cat in the bag now I started doubting things. I ended up kissing her back at my place and she kissed me back but after that I froze I didn't know what the **** to do. The weed had me doubting myself. So we finished up with the movie and I took her home. About a hour after I dropped her off she text me that she really enjoyed herself and she had a good time.
I forgot to mention she has count them 1,2,3 kids so she's nothing to get serious about just something to do everyonce in a while. I text her last Monday looking to set something up for the weekend and she switches her availability on me. She text me that it's hard to hang out on the weekends since sometimes her childs father doesn't get the kids. She gives me a counter-offer she tells me shes available during the day when her kids are in school. Now this is all fine and dandy, but how is one week she said she's available on the weekends now she is saying it's hard to get out on the weekends and she available during the day.
The answer is obvious I should of never smoked but what do you think? Has any chick switched up their avavilability on you before? The last text I sent her when she switched up her availability was "OK cool I work a lot of days this week but im sure we'll figure something out. That was last week Thursday and we haven't talked since and I don't plan on texting her.....Am I playing this situation the right way? I figure the best thing I can do at this point is nothing, or do I accept her invitation to hang out during the day?