"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I playing this right?

Dave yeah

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I've been hanging out with a girl since late january. Lots of kino going on, but we've only kissed and haven't taken it to the next level yet. She told me right from the start that she'll never sleep with a peson without knowing them a bit first.

I try to mix-up the singals that I've been giving her. One week I'll give her some attention, the next week I'll act like a bit of a jerk. A few weeks ago she thought that I was mad at her and she told me she thought about me all week, which I took as a good sign.

Anyway, we went out to a bar last weekend. We talked a bit, had some kino going on and all of that. I turned my back for a few minutes and saw that she was talking to some guy. I took this as my cue to leave for a little while. I went to the other side of the bar where she couldn't see my for about 20 minutes. I came back and she was upset because she thought I had left her. I was kind of pissed because I thought that it was obvious that we both had something going on together, but she was talking to that guy. Of course I didn't come right out and say anything to her about it. I sort of ignored her the rest of the night and did my own thing. The entire car ride home I didn't really say a word and she had asked me what was wrong. I insisted nothing, and she immediately grabbed my hand and started acting all romantic with me again. She knew what was up. I reluctantly kissed her good night and she confronted me about it the next day, asking me if her talking to that guy was the reason I was angry...she insisted it was just some guy that she knew. I think I may have come off as a jealous prick accidentally. Do you think that there is any possible way to fix that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a way you can fix is next time is play it cool if some other dude chats her up..make that the next 5 times...then you can go chat up girls and say you know each other...
 
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