Alright. Basically in the last week I've been ditched three times by my girlfriend to do something with her after work. The first time she says her dad was being weird about it and she didn't want to argue with him, the second time she says her friend couldn't give her a ride back from the house until too late, and the third time it was because her friend who she hasn't seen a lot lately stopped by, even though they had plans to hang out the next day.
Also I recently found a journal in my girlfriends room dated last month (while we were still going out) talking about a guy she used to go out with, that said something like "He won't look at me when I walk by him, why do I care about it so much?"...well yesterday her friend went over and invited a guy over...the guy brought a friend and it was my girlfriend's ex...who still likes her, and by the sound of the journal, she still thinks about. Well I only found out because my girlfriend's little brother called me and told me the guy was over there (it's good to win the kids over), I talked to her and she said they were just hanging out. I call back 10 minutes later and they're gone. I call her cell and send a couple texts, no response. THat was at 5-6. At 11 I get a text saying she went to another guys house, and left her cell in her friends car...thing is they didn't go to the guys house till like 8. I say to call, she says maybe in a bit. I go to sleep, she doesn't call.
A couple weeks back she also went to a party with me, when I left for a while a bunch of guys were laying on her and she let them, then while I was playing poker there (making friends with some of the dudes around), she left to get food and apparently they pulled over the car trying to get her to take her top off during the game "sex". She didn't.
Almost done - I talked to her about all of this today and said it wasn't cool with me, if she makes plans with me she needs to hold to them. She says i've been overreacting and been paranoid about everything, and that her plans change sometimes because of things she can't control. I've just given you all both sides of it...does it sound to all of you like i"m overreacting or not in being a little pissed about this and paranoid about her going out?
Also I recently found a journal in my girlfriends room dated last month (while we were still going out) talking about a guy she used to go out with, that said something like "He won't look at me when I walk by him, why do I care about it so much?"...well yesterday her friend went over and invited a guy over...the guy brought a friend and it was my girlfriend's ex...who still likes her, and by the sound of the journal, she still thinks about. Well I only found out because my girlfriend's little brother called me and told me the guy was over there (it's good to win the kids over), I talked to her and she said they were just hanging out. I call back 10 minutes later and they're gone. I call her cell and send a couple texts, no response. THat was at 5-6. At 11 I get a text saying she went to another guys house, and left her cell in her friends car...thing is they didn't go to the guys house till like 8. I say to call, she says maybe in a bit. I go to sleep, she doesn't call.
A couple weeks back she also went to a party with me, when I left for a while a bunch of guys were laying on her and she let them, then while I was playing poker there (making friends with some of the dudes around), she left to get food and apparently they pulled over the car trying to get her to take her top off during the game "sex". She didn't.
Almost done - I talked to her about all of this today and said it wasn't cool with me, if she makes plans with me she needs to hold to them. She says i've been overreacting and been paranoid about everything, and that her plans change sometimes because of things she can't control. I've just given you all both sides of it...does it sound to all of you like i"m overreacting or not in being a little pissed about this and paranoid about her going out?