Am I on the right track?

[CollegeLife]

Hello,

I been around here for a while now. For the past week, I have been living in college. Everything have been pretty good and so on, it just something bothers me a little.

I guess the easiest thing to say is that my experiences and observations is not the same as many of the people here.

Lately I guess I been seeing threads (or seeing the revival of older threads, like the "the truth about women") that put women on a very negative light. It justs... from my experiences have not agreed that women have no intellectual side, mean-looking, or that shallow. Sure some are, but I found many arent.

I'm sort of wondering if I just haven't have enough experience yet (my experience is not at all great), blind, or because I'm around people who aren't like that (the girls I been around most trend to be asian and nerdier). I just don't have such a bleak and hostile outlook as some here. I feel that I might just run into a trap.

Aside from that...

I wonder if I'm on the right track. To be honest, the biggest change in my thinking, besides wondering if the girl I'm looking at is that much of a *****, is I push myself more to approach (including a few cold ones). I'm on pretty good terms on my floor (they started to wonder (and joke a little) where I went during the short time I was gone for much of the day). I got a good number of phone numbers already from bunch of girls. In class, I trend to enter into discussions and quipped something funny for the class here and there (of course, I do my work, though it just started so it haven't been too hard... yet).

Yet, I'm sort of worried if that is not enough or something. I don't know. I guess I been reading too many threads. So I'm

Am I on the right track?

 

[CollegeLife]

Anyone? I feel like I'm ignore some of this site's warning and going to get walked over.

 

[B4IFURU18?]

Your post is kind of confusing. Can you make it more understandable?

 

[CollegeLife]

I'll try.

1. The first part I'm trying to say that I don't have even close to the bitter ideals about women as many here does. My experiences never pointed to be more malicious or vindictive than any man can. I'm worried that I won't protect the heart enough and will get burn in the future. It also makes my wonder how truthful it is, or is it an exagerration (partially due to the nature of this site).

2. I noticed that I'm doing pretty good in college so far, but reading around, I wonder if I am taking advantage of college life, missing out something. So far I have not like hook up or anything, or perhaps it is just an exageration. Or perhaps my nature then to attract girls who are nerdier... So I'm wondering if I'm still being an afc or something.

 

[B4IFURU18?]

1. Those dudes are jaded, unsuccessful men. Some women are mean spirited, but to classify all women as evil, is just asinine.
2. Don't put a time frame on hooking up. It'll happen naturally. Opener > Conversation > Kino > Home > Foreplay > Sex

Don't rush things, just keep working. FWIW, I haven't landed what in my eyes would be a 9 or 10. I know one day I will though. Be patient.

 

[everywomanshero]

On a site that purports to help men who want more success with women, you can expect to find many who have fallen short of great success. Therefore, you will be exposed to the ideas & attitudes of men who are frustrated as well as those who just wish to meet other like minded ladies men.

A negative attitude towards women is like poison for anyone entering this game. I would stay clear of that stuff, it destroys both one's game and eventually one's entire psychological well-being.

If you find yourself becoming more neurotic, then you're obviously heading in a dangerous direction. That's a good rule of thumb. I think more ideal is to be a charasmatic, cool guy who peppers in some game little by little.

 

[J-Bone]

Well if you're thinking they're all B****es you can either
A) become gay
B) Be patient and wait for the stars to line up with the moon and planets
or C) go out there and start breaking the hell outta the ice getting to know alot of women. even if you land friends zone mostly at first it WILL progress and you will start to find that women can be awesome if treated right, which means have fun with em, C&F really helps and can be learned with practice. go out there and have awkward monets, get rejected, because thats whats going to get you experience. one day you will get the great depression and think its all the same and suddenly realize how far you have come and realize you are really successful. then they will slowly but surely start to flood in like a school of fish.

 

[CollegeLife]

Thanks, I think I'm gonna just stick with my instincts and some of the selected advice from here. I don't see women as all *****es, and I'll probably go insane if I enter classrooms and start thinking all the women in there are like that.