Am I On My Way or Have I Done All I Can Do?

[ocbeachbum]

Hey everyone,

Im a little frustrated here(much like everyone else). An effort to improve myself with the ladies I have done the following things:
1. Lost 118lbs
2. Got Braces
3. Hit the gym regularly(4 times a week) and have developed a decent physique
4. Go tanning
5. Have a nice wardrobe
6. Bought a corvette

Still Nothing.

Now dont get me wrong. Im not a lonely little sap. I have tons of friends. A high paying job where Im in management. A unique hobby (Im an independent pro wrestler). Im not shy at all. I was around girls though that I wanted to hook up with.

I always seem to get "your like a bro" "you are a great friend" bull****. So I decided to change that and through the help of this site and trial and error Ive changed my ways.

In this day and age and seems the only way to pickup girls is at a club. That took me a while. First I was the wallflower, then I eventually started drinking and dancing a little and now lately im the first guy to start dancing all over the floor. So I show that Im not shy, the life of the party, confident, and fun. But still no girls. I get the occasional drunk girl or bachelorette who just wanna dance and come up to me cuz Im the only guy doing it but that doesnt get me anywhere. I guess I can say that Im not actively asking girls to dance with me but I never see any signs of eye contact or signals saying a chick wants me.

Its very frustrating because as I described I already have most of the things I want out of life. Im not saying I wanna get married but I want a girl to hang out with, have fun with, have sex with and as the time passes I still have nothing.

What are your thoughts?

Thanks

 

[catch]

how you doin man?

so youve done all that stuff and still no girly huh???

well let me say, your only half way there, you have been working on your image a hell of a lot havent you.. so i can tell when a women sees you from afar, she likes what shes sees, eh, ha ha..

now, ime a big believer that its your personality that counts, not your looks, money, power or haircut, you know...

so this is the proof, isnt it...

all you need to do now is deploy the artfull techniques a dj uses on the targets mind.... you need to DEVELOP THE DJ ATTITUDE...

YOUVE HEARD IT BEFORE, a really ugly guy, who seems to be the master with with women... ask yourself, WHY IS THAT????

THE PROOF IS ALL AROUND YOU MY MAN..., if you havent noticed, there are hundreds of guys, that have the same thing happen over and over....

you can get the ladies if you want...
its all about attitude... your CONFIDENCE, your SEXUAL VIBE... learn how to THINK LIKE A DOUN JAUN, act like a dj, not just look like a dj...

try out boot camp, do some mental experiments...

have you ever tried using mixed signals, or speed seduction...
all the info is here mate, so READ AND PRACTICE IT, get good at it!!!!!!

 

[Layla]

I think you should do other things besides clubbing to get girls. Do you approach girls on the street?

 

[JackPrescott]

You are well on your way, but whatever you do, gauge a woman's interest right away, a lot of them will "flirt just for fun" eliminate these ones, find the ones who ARE ACTUALLY interested sexually, and date these ones. Dont get too tight with women on a "strictly platonic" level. And for heaven's sake, do those things which please you, dont club because you want to find a girl, club because you feel like it.

 

[ocbeachbum]

I used to go out just for the sole purpose of meeting girls and that ended up being depressing nights. Now I go out because I want to get away from the real world and have a good time with friends and its made it 10X better. I never tried cold approaches off the street. To me its an impossible feat. I dont know how to open up or if I should. I would say my biggest problem is gauging girls interest. I cant tell when one likes me or doesnt. Sometimes Ill get a smile but when I smile back or wave it gets ignored. I really am afraid of rejection and I think in my own mind that unless I know its 100% sure she will say yes I wont try.

My personality is good. Not to be conceited but I bet I couldnt find one person who knows me that doesnt like me. I feel the boot camp is for people who are shy and cant be social in general and thats def. not me. I like people, i like to laugh and make people laugh, and generally have a good time.

Im just not sure what Im doing wrong.

 

[tmpgstx]

It's sounds like you're way to good for the club scene though. The girlz that frequent these places are into guys that are not successful, have no responsibility and are un-intelligent.

To date a girl on your level, you have to meet her outside the bar scene first. In other words, you won't meet a higher quality girl at the club. It would have to be thru work, sports, friendz, family or anything in the norms.