"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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am i messed up in the head?

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neonlimited

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I met a girl about a year ago started dating but all i wanted was the sexual relationship so we broke up

she still came over as a booty call for about 3 months even though i knew i was hurting her and she still liked me and i didnt even care

i realize now i was a complete ****ing **** to her and i hurt her atleast 10 different times. i dont ever want this to happen again, but is this just who i am? what the hell is wrong with me?

why didnt i want to have a relationship with her? i have no ****ing idea, well yesi do. I thought i would be judged by dating her. I wanted to be accepted and i thought by dating her i wouldnt be. whats wrong with me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nothing your a guy. a man. you possess a sex drive. it normal. you want what every guy wants. you want to pass your DNA trough sexual reproduction.. we as men want to have sex as much as possible with as many partners as possible. A relationship is not very important to us, but for females it is very important because it this way she can insure her servival as by uitlizing your resorces. this explains why women are more care full and why they are attracted to social status and wealth. while you as a man cares much less about these issues, and much more inclined to have sex with as many differnt women as possible, and why we look almost exclusively at looks, rather than any thing else.
 
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So you made a mistake, you hurt this chick and you feel bad about. Everyone makes mistakes, just make the decision if this something you want to do again or not, and stick with it, make it part of your values. Nothing wrong with not wanting to be an a**hole. As for thinking that you would be judged, don't make the mistake of thinking what people care about. Someone judges you for being a chick, or anything at all for that matter, fvck them. People are entitled to their opinion but all that really matters is that you make the choices you think are right, keep your integrity, don't sweat everyone else. You are not fvcked in the head, you are just the same as everyone else, but at least you recognise your behaviour may not have been good for you ar good for her, so you can change it.

Peace
 
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