"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Am I legit?

Kiddo

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Yo guys I am in 10th grade and have made out with 8 girls so far. Most of them were either when I was drunk or the girl was. One of them was a hot 12th grader girl from our school at prom. I guess I am popular Ive been invited to 5 from my school (11 in total including outside school) and have thrown one and everyone in school knows me. I am black 5 foot 6 I am pretty muscular and dress more gangsta fresh like.

I havent had a girlfriend yet though(missed my chances).

Just wanted to know If based on these facts I am a "succesful guy" and legit..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kiddo

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Sure ruler thx!

But my question wasnt about what you were talking about but I was solely asking about success with girls. Sure I know that this is not the end and that I will be trying to get more and more girls. KInd of a nobrainer. So again at this moment right now would you say I am someone legit and for example someone shouöd take advise from? Do I meet the threshhold of being someone who has hooked up with many girls at this point of my life?
 

DumbBell80

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Ewok, your last paragraph was pretty solid and I'm all for it. But I think kiddo is really asking if he is good based on his hookups. In that sense, I think he's pretty legit.
 
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