"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Am I legit?

Kiddo

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Yo guys I am in 10th grade and have made out with 8 girls so far. Most of them were either when I was drunk or the girl was. One of them was a hot 12th grader girl from our school at prom. I guess I am popular Ive been invited to 5 from my school (11 in total including outside school) and have thrown one and everyone in school knows me. I am black 5 foot 6 I am pretty muscular and dress more gangsta fresh like.

I havent had a girlfriend yet though(missed my chances).

Just wanted to know If based on these facts I am a "succesful guy" and legit..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kiddo

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Sure ruler thx!

But my question wasnt about what you were talking about but I was solely asking about success with girls. Sure I know that this is not the end and that I will be trying to get more and more girls. KInd of a nobrainer. So again at this moment right now would you say I am someone legit and for example someone shouöd take advise from? Do I meet the threshhold of being someone who has hooked up with many girls at this point of my life?
 

DumbBell80

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Ewok, your last paragraph was pretty solid and I'm all for it. But I think kiddo is really asking if he is good based on his hookups. In that sense, I think he's pretty legit.
 
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