"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I just overthinking or she really isn't into me anymore?

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I have been with my girlfriend for five years and with all those years, she never failed in loving me and showing how much she does. However, just recently, things have changed. She used to be so sweet. She never misses a day to message me before, but now she barely even texts me. She used to call me all the time asking if I have already eaten and whatnots, yet now she does not seem to want to talk to me anymore. I can’t help but think that she’s not into me anymore. I don’t know if this is true or if I am just overthinking?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Igetit!

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I have been with my girlfriend for five years and with all those years, she never failed in loving me and showing how much she does. However, just recently, things have changed. She used to be so sweet. She never misses a day to message me before, but now she barely even texts me. She used to call me all the time asking if I have already eaten and whatnots, yet now she does not seem to want to talk to me anymore. I can’t help but think that she’s not into me anymore. I don’t know if this is true or if I am just overthinking?
If you're dating a girl for a while,say a few months,or years even,then ALL OF THE SUDDEN her behavior seems to have changed,the VERY FIRST THING I think a person should do is this.........

LOOK IN THE MIRROR Examine YOURSELF.

The reason I say that is,a chick's behavior towards you is typically a DIRECT RESPONSE to how you're acting,behaving,and how you're treating her.

She seems different,right? Different as to have she was in the first few months/years of the relationship. Ok,well how is YOUR BEHAVIOR........NOW as compared to how it was 5 years ago when you two first met? You still act the same? You still treat her the same way? STOP FOR A MOMENT..........and think....think about that question.

I wrote this 9 years ago. Have a look at it.....https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ding-to-a-womans-emotions.156533/post-1550301

Is it possible there's another guy in the picture? Well yeah,it's possible.....but if you're SURE there's not,I'd check myself. Cause it's EASY to stop giving a woman the emotional fuel that made her feel sparks and fire for you like she did in the beginning of the relationship. I know....I've been guilty of it.......SEVERAL times.
 

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Anyone notice how the new posters create usernames directly correlated to their situation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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