"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Am I just looking for signs that aren't there?

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New girl for over a month at work who will only be there for a couple of months.

At the parking we always take the same spot, one day her spot was taken I think, so she decided to park exactly at the spot next to me, even though I wasn't there yet. Might be coincidence, but she knows where I park and I actually park quite far (spot where only one car could park next to me due to previous dents in my door), so it was kind of remarkable as other spots closer by were free. Of course the other days she parks at her normal place.

Was talking in group that I was going to take a certain seat in some course because we were joking around due to some sick people. When I walk into the room a couple of minutes after her, she sat at the seat next to were I was going to sit. Fun fact, I didn't take the seat I said I was because of some reasons, which is another thread I'll be posting.

During lunch I tend to stay at a certain classroom (where we have some courses together with other people) and don't go to the cafetaria that often. Today I went to the cafetaria, she came a bit later, ordered something and immediately went back to the classroom alone. Normally she never does this. I don't know if she knew I was at the cafetaria or not though.

Look when writing this down, it sounds absolutely pathetic. But I need to know that everything a girl does (and not say) is calculated in some way or not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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