"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Am I just a bit naieve?

ItsOnNow

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So I have been listening to alot of Tom Leykis, like his stuff, but he can be a bit mean spirited at times. And he's talking about women/dating/sex, and about how men just want hot women dumb enough to sleep with them, and it got me thinking, maybe that's my problem. I have always wanted to just meet a nice girl and have a family someday, call me irrational, but I am certain that's what I want, I know about the cheating,the lying,the manipulation, the golddiggers, how they only go after "avvssholes with money", "regular" guys don't get a shot, etc.

But even after all that, I just want something honest with no lies and b.s. They had also interviewed a guy who talks about lying to get laid, saying he's a doctor,lawyer,etc, and of course,the chicks fall for it. I don't want to become that. It also got me thinking about my own intelligence.

They also said something about how back in the 50's, much more simpler times, they would take the young man aside and say be a man, but stopped cause it's not p.c. I don't ever remember being young and having either of my parents say that to me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I hope I'm right in saying this, but I would guess that the majority of the guys on these boards are on here for the same reason as you, to eventually meet that one girl to settle down with. Unfortunately, or maybe it is fortunate, in order to meet that girl you have to go through a number of other girls and maybe some one night stands here and there.
The guys that lie to get laid don't have their inner game going for them, otherwise their own life would be interesting enough to attract women.
 

ItsOnNow

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That's what has been getting me down since well, forever. This feeling of inadaquecy, not being interesting enough, having an exciting life, by all means, things have always been pretty regular for me. Whether that's say my own environment or perception, I don't know. My routine is usually,work,home,have been going out more a bit lately,but I have this constant emptiness,like things are not complete and I need something to fill it.
 
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