"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pvf94

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Short simple question's are the **** right?

If I am walking down the hallway's at school in-between classes, how in the hell can I draw attention to myself?! In all honesty I might get a glance every once in a while....but it seems if I am trying with every girl I would get more. I dont get it..

It seem's like it would be easy as hell to get some eye contact going, but damn.....nobody looks at me! And for those of you that saw my picture in one of my previous post's, I was not called out on being ugly or anything, actually got told I was a handsome average guy.


Any pointers on drawing some sort of attention, or getting eye contact ? I read a few other topics similar to this but nothing struck a good nerve!

Let's hear what you men got :wave:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spesmilitis

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just talk to people before class. Talk to them about the homework or test, and go from there. Be like 'what did you think of the test' or something like that.
 
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