I met this girl in the college and introduce myself.This was 2 weeks ago and since then i see her 3-4 times a week but i can't talk to her more cause i'm always hanging with someone.I think she's into me cause she's smiling , give me a lot of eye contact...but i'm afraid no to be too late because i'm not doing anything.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Am I in the friends zone ?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you only have one more week to invite her out or you will become her bftch....dont make excuses for yourself, the only reason you havent ask her out is because you are scared of rejection. grab your balls by the horn and sssssssaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitttttttttttttt.
ask her out this week or forget about her cause you wont have a chance with her after 3 weeks of meeting her.
ask her out this week or forget about her cause you wont have a chance with her after 3 weeks of meeting her.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Who the hell are you to give a "time limit" of when to ask a girl out? There's no set schedule of when to do things. If the guy is busy then he's busy, if anything he's displaying an example of a DHV because he doesn't focus %100 of his time to girls. Maybe he wants to go out with his guy friends. As long as he makes every encounter (even if it's once a week) worth while, flirts, picks up on IOI's and kinos during heightened peaks of conversation then he'll be fine.librito said:
You're not in any zone.
No contact = NO ZONE
Just go and talk to her. "Hey what's up?? Saw you a couple of times but I was with someone. Whats this here *grab*, I didn't know you took chemistry too.... blah blah blah blah"
Its that easy. Just fvcking talk to her like she's a human being. Don't be a dweeb.
No contact = NO ZONE
Just go and talk to her. "Hey what's up?? Saw you a couple of times but I was with someone. Whats this here *grab*, I didn't know you took chemistry too.... blah blah blah blah"
Its that easy. Just fvcking talk to her like she's a human being. Don't be a dweeb.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Senior Don Juan
How can you be in the friend zone when you've only seen her eight times at the most?
You only get Friend Zoned when you become close to her and then try making a move. Right now, you're not even on her radar.
You only get Friend Zoned when you become close to her and then try making a move. Right now, you're not even on her radar.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I don't think you can be in the friend zone until you start spending some time with her and you two haven't hooked up. If you are seeing her pretty regularly for an extended time you have to make a move or she will put you in the friend category.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just say hey sometimes when you see her and start a conversation, and when the conversation is good you end it and leave. She will be more interested after that. Next time you meet her ask her out.
The reason why she will be more interested is that you show power to her when you are starting the conversation and even more power when you are also ending it. ( Not needy)
She wants more, but can not have it until next time you talk to her.
If you want to now if she is interested in you, you must observe how she talks to other guys. If she are acting much different around you than other guys in a positive ore freaky( trying to be cool) way she probably have interest in you.
The reason why she will be more interested is that you show power to her when you are starting the conversation and even more power when you are also ending it. ( Not needy)
She wants more, but can not have it until next time you talk to her.
If you want to now if she is interested in you, you must observe how she talks to other guys. If she are acting much different around you than other guys in a positive ore freaky( trying to be cool) way she probably have interest in you.
I think i f*cked it up very bad.I've made a progress in the past couple weeks but still nothing serious and i think it's not going well.She's obviously into me but i don't know just what to do because every time i see her happens the same thing.We smile at each other talk a bit and that's all.It's just impossible to want her number cause her friends are there and as it goes soon to ask her number will be a question that will not be natural because much time has passed.
P.S. sorry if there are any errors in my english
P.S. sorry if there are any errors in my english