I met this girl in the college and introduce myself.This was 2 weeks ago and since then i see her 3-4 times a week but i can't talk to her more cause i'm always hanging with someone.I think she's into me cause she's smiling , give me a lot of eye contact...but i'm afraid no to be too late because i'm not doing anything.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Am I in the friends zone ?
- Thread starter RHCP
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you only have one more week to invite her out or you will become her bftch....dont make excuses for yourself, the only reason you havent ask her out is because you are scared of rejection. grab your balls by the horn and sssssssaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitttttttttttttt.
ask her out this week or forget about her cause you wont have a chance with her after 3 weeks of meeting her.
ask her out this week or forget about her cause you wont have a chance with her after 3 weeks of meeting her.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Who the hell are you to give a "time limit" of when to ask a girl out? There's no set schedule of when to do things. If the guy is busy then he's busy, if anything he's displaying an example of a DHV because he doesn't focus %100 of his time to girls. Maybe he wants to go out with his guy friends. As long as he makes every encounter (even if it's once a week) worth while, flirts, picks up on IOI's and kinos during heightened peaks of conversation then he'll be fine.librito said:
You're not in any zone.
No contact = NO ZONE
Just go and talk to her. "Hey what's up?? Saw you a couple of times but I was with someone. Whats this here *grab*, I didn't know you took chemistry too.... blah blah blah blah"
Its that easy. Just fvcking talk to her like she's a human being. Don't be a dweeb.
No contact = NO ZONE
Just go and talk to her. "Hey what's up?? Saw you a couple of times but I was with someone. Whats this here *grab*, I didn't know you took chemistry too.... blah blah blah blah"
Its that easy. Just fvcking talk to her like she's a human being. Don't be a dweeb.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
How can you be in the friend zone when you've only seen her eight times at the most?
You only get Friend Zoned when you become close to her and then try making a move. Right now, you're not even on her radar.
You only get Friend Zoned when you become close to her and then try making a move. Right now, you're not even on her radar.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I don't think you can be in the friend zone until you start spending some time with her and you two haven't hooked up. If you are seeing her pretty regularly for an extended time you have to make a move or she will put you in the friend category.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just say hey sometimes when you see her and start a conversation, and when the conversation is good you end it and leave. She will be more interested after that. Next time you meet her ask her out.
The reason why she will be more interested is that you show power to her when you are starting the conversation and even more power when you are also ending it. ( Not needy)
She wants more, but can not have it until next time you talk to her.
If you want to now if she is interested in you, you must observe how she talks to other guys. If she are acting much different around you than other guys in a positive ore freaky( trying to be cool) way she probably have interest in you.
The reason why she will be more interested is that you show power to her when you are starting the conversation and even more power when you are also ending it. ( Not needy)
She wants more, but can not have it until next time you talk to her.
If you want to now if she is interested in you, you must observe how she talks to other guys. If she are acting much different around you than other guys in a positive ore freaky( trying to be cool) way she probably have interest in you.
I think i f*cked it up very bad.I've made a progress in the past couple weeks but still nothing serious and i think it's not going well.She's obviously into me but i don't know just what to do because every time i see her happens the same thing.We smile at each other talk a bit and that's all.It's just impossible to want her number cause her friends are there and as it goes soon to ask her number will be a question that will not be natural because much time has passed.
P.S. sorry if there are any errors in my english
P.S. sorry if there are any errors in my english