“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am i in good shape? i wanna set a goal.

Zaraza

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Hey guys, i have been working out for a while now, i believe roughly 2-3 months. Right now i am at 161 pounds, 8.9% body fat, and 5' 8.

im trying to reach 170, so 9 more pounds! you think its reachable in the next 2-3 weeks....? im trying to set a goal for how much to gain each week.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Eat a lot, do big compound lifts, etc etc.
Know what I'm sayin'?
If not, search.
 

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You can only gain 2 pounds of muscle a month MAX,the rest if fat. Don't be concerned with how much you weigh.
 

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blinkwatt said:
You can only gain 2 pounds of muscle a month MAX,the rest if fat. Don't be concerned with how much you weigh.
hogwash

too many factors to make this assumption. and yes I've read the article you got that notion from.

OP - that's an ambitious goal. with your stats you have obviously trained before, so you're no longer in the "noob gains" stage. unless you're lying about something. you might be able to do it in 6 weeks or so if you eat like an animal, sleep as much as you can and train balls to the wall. the supersquats/"milk and squats" cycle would actually be perfect for you.

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/irontamer5.htm

you have to be hardcore dedicated to get through that though ...
 

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sorry, 2-3 months is not training for a long time.

if a goal like 9 pounds gained has to be achieved RIGHT NOW, how are you going to hang on to the gains...?

keep doing what you're doing, and strongly consider eating more. you'll get those 9 pounds before you know it, and then some, if you keep it up.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah theres no set in stone number about how many pounds of muscle you can gain in a month, and gains aren't linear either

I'd be interested in seeing your diet and routine, its possible that you already got your newbie newbie gains (bascially just moving weights around), but not the newbie gains that come from correct training and nutrition which most people are yet to have and i'm talking people that have been lifting and eating wrong for years that make some impressive gains once they train and eat correct.
 

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Hey guys im liking these replies,

no im not lying, i have lifted before.
heres some of my history.

since 1997 i have been doing taekwondo, i stopped taekwon do in 2005 and began lifting in high school class, but what i meant by 3 months, was, i have been dedicated to lifting once again. I just wanna get more mass, people tell me i am pretty big i want to gain more mass look bigger, my friend weighs around 178-185 or so, so i figured getting to his weight would make me bigger.

I am not a big noob at lifting, but as far as facts go for weight training i always like comments, facts, added opinions, it helps me out as i train.

thanks all.
 

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Again if you post your routine and diet we can help
 

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Well i dont really have a Diet, and a routine,

I just rotate the muslces i work out, on different days ill do biceps triceps chest upper chest and so on.

i do a good job of staying away from fast food, and after everywork out, i eat cottage cheese.


seroiulsy guys, it would be nice if someone linked me to a routine or types of excercises.

mine are working for me well, but i just want to know if a routine will help me more.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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search for the "idiot's guide", come back and ask more specific questions
 
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