"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dhoulmagus

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We haven't agreed to it, but she's been giving out hints. I have this other girl hitting me up, but I really don't want to cheat.

Signs
1) She post pics of us on her social media and snapchat.
2) We've hung out in couple settings
3) We cuddle and hookup sober on the reg
4) I took her to my friends party and she kept displaying public display of attraction on me. I ended up on some makeout twitter because of her.
5) She keeps asking me if I have other girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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saberu

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You are still dating. I don't think it can be considered in a serious relationship until you can flat out tell her you won't date other guys.

It's common sense man. How can you consider yourself to be in a relationship if there hasn't been any affrontal confirmation on your part that either you won't date other girls or that it is a reationship?

What a stupid ****ing question. If anything this post looks like you are just bragging about ****ing some random girl that none of us give a **** about.
 
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The fvck. You're not in an exclusive relationship no.
 
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Starwolf

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saberu said:
What a stupid ****ing question. If anything this post looks like you are just bragging about ****ing some random girl that none of us give a **** about.
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:crackup: at least OP isn't complaining again
 
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