"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Am I in a relationship or not

Dhoulmagus

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We haven't agreed to it, but she's been giving out hints. I have this other girl hitting me up, but I really don't want to cheat.

Signs
1) She post pics of us on her social media and snapchat.
2) We've hung out in couple settings
3) We cuddle and hookup sober on the reg
4) I took her to my friends party and she kept displaying public display of attraction on me. I ended up on some makeout twitter because of her.
5) She keeps asking me if I have other girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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saberu

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You are still dating. I don't think it can be considered in a serious relationship until you can flat out tell her you won't date other guys.

It's common sense man. How can you consider yourself to be in a relationship if there hasn't been any affrontal confirmation on your part that either you won't date other girls or that it is a reationship?

What a stupid ****ing question. If anything this post looks like you are just bragging about ****ing some random girl that none of us give a **** about.
 

LMFAO

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The fvck. You're not in an exclusive relationship no.
 

Starwolf

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saberu said:
What a stupid ****ing question. If anything this post looks like you are just bragging about ****ing some random girl that none of us give a **** about.
:crackup: at least OP isn't complaining again
 
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