"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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am I in a bad situation?

skd

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Last night this girl friend who was my target ended up making out with my friend, and of course he felt bad because we established this before we all got drunk. He told her this, and that I liked her and she just replied "I didn't know that."

I've never thought it wise to let a girl know if you like her or not and I'm wondering if I can recover from this or if I should even bother trying... or if I've got nothing to worry about.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Distant Light

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You should have just gamed her and stop taking so long for her to say she didn't know that. Sounds like yall were just friends. Her ending up making out with your friend doesn't mean much. I think you still have a chance if you play your cards right.

Basically you have nothing to worry about unless your boy wants to followup on that girl and bag her.
 

Hunterchilla

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i agree but i disagree if i like a girl at a party, im not gonna make it with her friend. so i dunno, good luck.
 

skd

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Alright I found out today that actually there was very little kissing but still.

Also, today the girl called me to hot tub at her house with a friend of hers and a different friend of mine (we had actually talked about this before, but she finally decided to go through with it?), she IMed me when I was on the comp...

Is she just trying to make herself feel better about hurting my feelings by compensating with friendlier gestures, or do you guys think she's been emboldened by the knowledge that I like her?
 
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