k well theres this girl and she used to like me but now shes moved on to another guy has i didnt want a relationship. well things werent going to good between them two and while we were on the phone together (we are still friends) she started to cry. being a nice guy i comforted her then shes saying im her best friend (that means no more action from her since i already got some) so what can i do to heat things up again from best friends to friends with benefites
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am i in a bad situation
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im not really a don juan, but what from what i've read in here: that's too much work, and turning friends into lovers is almost impossible. she sees you as a friend now, friends don't give you ***, do they? have a nice day/night.
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Mikelo2k
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Well, u said ur a nice 'guy', but now it seems to me that you may be becoming her 'emotional tampon', so man as far as i can see this means that you'll never have anything with this girl again...
Ded_Skin_Mask13
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DUDE.....FORGET HER!!! its real tough, but there might be something better in store for you in the near future.......just do some DJing.......unless all the girls in your school are medusa
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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