"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I hot or not?

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Flabbergasped?

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This is by no means a post that's meant to reassure me. In my mind, I am the sexiest man alive, and I reflect it in everything that I do. However, I would like to know what objective people think, since I can't tell whether girls go along because of my game or my looks. Probably the former, since I'm not stellar.

I don't have many pics of myself, but this is one that was taken at prom. The girl is my prom date, who is flooded by AFC chumps so often that picking her up was easy as pie.

http://img108.imageshack.us/img108/5480/dsc01956sb8.jpg

And yea, I'm African and have mastery over the English language XD
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There's an entire website called hotornot.com.

I'd say you appear to women like your date appears to men - if you got ritzy clothes, and the voice to back it up.
 

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Stupid question. You date is a babe. You can not get with chicks like that if you arent decent yourself. It is just a matter of how decent you are,and that is all up to you.
 

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You date is a hottie man!!

I'm a guy so don't think my opinion really counts.. Your thread asks "Am I hot or not?" Sorry bro.. but in my opinion you're not..To be honest, I think a lot of girls might find you quite ugly.. You apparently have game! Great work! You are an inspiration to those doubting if they can get with girls...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You look like a premiership football (soccer for you yanks) player.

nice gal you got there aswell.
 

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Sorry man, I think you are not, not at all. Sure you are obviously neither weird looking nor obese or fat. But that's about it. You may have a tall and athletic body, we can't tell from the pic. But facially speaking, I'd say you are just average.

But hey, I'm just a heterosexual guy, my opinion about how you look doesn't mean sh*t. Your date is hot though, and she obviously is not a cousin...:whistle: Since you can get hot girls/women, what do you worry about?:cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Flabbergasped? said:
This is by no means a post that's meant to reassure me. In my mind, I am the sexiest man alive, and I reflect it in everything that I do. However, I would like to know what objective people think, since I can't tell whether girls go along because of my game or my looks. Probably the former, since I'm not stellar.

I don't have many pics of myself, but this is one that was taken at prom. The girl is my prom date, who is flooded by AFC chumps so often that picking her up was easy as pie.

http://img108.imageshack.us/img108/5480/dsc01956sb8.jpg

And yea, I'm African and have mastery over the English language XD
Asking guys if another guy is good looking or not is like asking one merchant if another has a better deal.

Think who your target is....women right? Ask them. What we say means sh1t. You're not out looking to date us.
 

Flabbergasped?

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I ask girls plenty of times, but they usually say 'yes' out of courtesy. And, like I said earlier, when I'm gaming a girl, I don't know whether it's the looks or the DJing that's doing the trick.

But I guess I got my answer. I still think I'm a sexy beast tho lol
 

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This shyt is funny. You guys talk all day long about how looks don't matter, then you're going around asking people if they think you're hot? LOLOLOL

Anyone who has to ask if they're hot, isn't.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flabbergasped? said:
This is by no means a post that's meant to reassure me. In my mind, I am the sexiest man alive, and I reflect it in everything that I do. However, I would like to know what objective people think, since I can't tell whether girls go along because of my game or my looks. Probably the former, since I'm not stellar.

I don't have many pics of myself, but this is one that was taken at prom. The girl is my prom date, who is flooded by AFC chumps so often that picking her up was easy as pie.

http://img108.imageshack.us/img108/5480/dsc01956sb8.jpg

And yea, I'm African and have mastery over the English language XD
Most pointless post ever. You're on the arm of a gorgeous babe like that and you come in here looking for validation?

Go away before my envious butt comes over there and hurts you! LOL
 

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This post shows how the face is soo important when it comes to deciding if someone is hot. This is a head shot and you say how hot this girl is, and i agree reall pretty face, but you are saying this with out seeing a body!

How you look as sooo much about your face!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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