"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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so i hav spent lunch 2 days with this girl......shes very receptive with me.....i am100% sure she likes me....i hav made sexual enuendos with her.....
wat should i do next? wat should we talk about? how should i make a move without it been too drastic?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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faiNt`

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Get her cell number and hang out at her house or at yours.
 

eaglez1177

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Stop worrying about things and stop freaking out. Bottom line is that this chick is definitely into you. That being said, set up a date for the two of you to hang out and get the hookup. Couldnt be any simpler than that.
 

eaglez1177

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Dont say to her "lets hang out sometime". You need to be up front and know what you wanna do with her. Simply sayin "ohh we should hang out sometime" or "I wanna hang out sometime" isnt good. "Lets do blah blah this saturday" is much better.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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