"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Am i going blind? (S&F forum)
- Thread starter Climax
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
I was just checking the forums, and i thought, maybe I am going crazy, but where did the suggestions forum for this website go? I could of sworn it was here last week.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we are now to use anything else for the same thing
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
Merged and stickied for a day or two...
S&F is gone for now, word is that there were too many of the same suggestions being made and several people's feelings were being hurt that their ideas weren't being implemented...
If there's an issue that you need to address, stick it into Anything Else until further notice.