"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I gaming this girl right?

jigga23

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Alright, Im trying to game this girl right now (plus others). but shes on top of the list. And I think the plan I have in place should work, not %100 sure though. Its just like a business u gotta have a plan before doing anything.

Quick background: Met her a while ago, hung out a couple of times, kissed, could have boned her last weekened but didnt (was in her bed and she was just asking for it, not literally though). She has said she talks about me all the time to other people, I have actually heard from other people too. she knows things about me like sh*t i wouldve never thought she wouldve known. tells me im ****y and so forth. We know mutual people so thats probably why she knows all this sh*t. I think she likes me right now and i like her but nothing to intense. Im just trying to feel her out. She has said she kind of plays games ("i cant be to available to you")but i am the type of guy that likes that sh*t only for a little bit though. I play them right back. Right now im trying to calm down the game playing somewhat though.

My plan: I know she has guys chasing her, I see it and hear it. so when i didnt bone her i did it on purpose. I wanted to show her that i wasn't that easy and needy to just fvck her right away and I didnt want her to know where exactly i stand with her. This might have made her a little mad or make her IL drop. She might have thought that i wasnt interested in her. So I counter acted that by asking her to go out the next day (we talked about it then she never got back to me). Within in the time ive known her i havent called her except sometime during a weekened to hang out. So last tuesday night I called her out of the blue. she answered we talked for less than 5 minutes kept it kind of short. she asked me to hang out with her on thursday. In my head i was like probably not going to happen (I was getting back from a trip that day and she was leaving to cali the next day). But just to show her im interested in her i texted her that day and said some bs and she was like how was your trip etc. Then i was like "well after your dinner we can get some drinks so let me know." She got back to me and said it was late and she had to pack. (its true cause she told me this like a week before). i texted her back like 20 minutes later saying "Ok. well hope you have fun in Cali. Take care. She wrote back immediatley and said ill call u when i get back.

So now after showing her that i was interested even though i didnt bone her that first chance (calling her, following up on hanging out, etc.) i am just going to turn my back on her cause ive done some chasing now. She said shell call me so im thinking shell call me this coming friday or saturday, but i refuse to call her first. shes ok when it comes to getting back too you but obivously flakes sometimes. Im checking to see where she stands. if she calls me then yea ill hang out and probably fvck her and maybe our relationship will move ahead (obviously up to her). and if she doesnt then fvck her. but i think shell call in the near future. And yes i know spin more plates. Im trying to cut the game playing down a lot right now also. But anyways will this plan work? any other suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Excuse my lack of experience, but I think there was no reason for you not to have hooked up with her, especially since you feel she wanted it. If she gives you a window of opportunity why not take it? If she then starts to flake, push you away etc, THEN you withdraw. Whether or not you make a move she's always going to have guys approaching her, you might as well just strike while the iron is hot.
 

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yea that stuff could be true but from my experience with girls like this, such as with my ex she couldve fvcked a lot guys when i was first getting to know her. i didnt fvck her at all, like other guys or what she was use too a guy doing. but in the end after not calling her just showing interest but not fvcking her she chose me over a couple of other dudes fighting for her.. shes a b1tch though but thats a different story. This girl is not nearly as bad as my ex but still i think the general way im acting should be sufficient.

Mr elor: after i didnt fvck her she probably was like fvck this guy he doesnt like me and just is leading me on or something. so i had to show her yea i am interested in you but im not going to fvck you that easily. By doing that it 1. Makes me look cooler in her eyes 2. if shes a player which i dont know yet her IL should go up afterwards. cause chances are that if i never conversed with her after i wouldve not gotten any respone at all whatsoever.
 
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