“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am i FriendZoned?

Pathgen

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Her: yo yo jigga
[15:22] Path: hey
[15:23] Her: what are you doing"?
[15:24] Path: um getting dressed i went to the gym and took a shower
[15:24] Her: oh good for you. what a good boy. how was the gym?
[15:24] Path: sweaty but i like it
[15:25] Path: are you at school?
[15:25] Path: cause the house seemed dead
[15:27] Her: yeah i sure am. i love school
[15:28] Her: oh hey, are there alot of cars parked behind mine?
[15:28] Her: because i am going to go climb at 4:15
[15:28] Path: caleb and me
[15:28] Path: thats it
[15:28] Path: or maybe its samya
[15:28] Path: and me
[15:28] Her: oh okay, does caleb usually leave his keys there?
[15:28] Path: nope not that im aware of
[15:29] Her: oh damn, i will be veryyy sad, if that is the case
[15:29] Her: sad :-(

[15:30] Path: lol go at 5
[15:30] Her: i cant i am meeting someone at 4:15
[15:30] Her: maybe like a date ooooohhhhhh
[15:31] Path: oh what happened to matt (Long distance Relationship)
[15:31] Path: you guys arent doing the kissy thing over the phone anymore =P
[15:31] Her: haha yeah its really fun to have a phone relationship!
[15:31] Her: well we arent broken up yet, but probably soon
[15:32] Her: i can just tell that its going to happen
[15:33] Path: bah all woman are the same, but i guess caleb is doing a similar thing
[15:34] Path: well then you should go at 4 i think caleb will be here he ussualy is
[15:34] Her: ha yeah, and no not all women are the same actually... but i guess i could say that all guys are the same actually
[15:35] Her: cause guys, like Matt, dont tell me how they feel and then it gets to this point, where i am going to break up with his ass
[15:35] Her: guys act like *******s, what can i do
[15:37] Path: hmm idk, i just see what i see
[15:37] Her: oh yeah well.. well. i think you should take my side
[15:39] Path: haha im no fool i can barely tolerate dealing with my own relationship issues i like to stay a nonpartisan
[15:39] Path: but i got your back since you live here
[15:39] Path: lol
[15:40] Path: its shannons car btw
[15:41] Her: haha, well thanks man, you better have my back

Conversation with one of my roomates. See the thing with her is im getting a lot of IOI's from her. Im not interested in her because as desperate as I am with my dry spell i dont want issues in my home, but im mostly just curios what the **** is going on here. Well thats not true I was thinking I would put the moves on her when we had a month left on our leases or when one of us was moving out. She touches me, invites me to do ****, does the hair thing that Mystery says is an IOI.

Then our convo goes like this on aim and I am thinking is she trying to tell me that she is single and trying to make me jelous or something. I feel this way because all other indications are different. However, I kind of see how i could be friendzoned. Even though i have tried to stay away from being a AFC around her.

She did mention that a guy tried to kiss her the other day who was a guy friend to me and my other roomate. She was upset about it, but we were both pretty high. This leads me to believe she is a AW. I really can't tell though.

Oh and btw she was not acting the same way with the dude that tried to kiss her. She also laid off on the flirtatious stuff when she first had her long distance relationship with the matt guy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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brian123

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It's a IM convo. I wouldnt read too much into it either way.
 

Pathgen

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I know that, but i always get mixed signals from her that confuse me
 

MisterMcGee

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I get mixed signals too haha. Well you two didn't flirt or anything, try to flirt a bit more.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pathgen

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Yeah I figured it out about an hour ago. Definitely friendzoned got called "little brother"
 

Dannyrt34

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Sorry bud. But just for the record, usually when you have to ask if you just got friendzoned.... that means you just got friendzoned.

And yeah that conversation between the two of you just looks like any conversation i'd have with my guy friends, with less gayness.
 
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