"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"am i fat?"

icallug

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yeah , this girl keeps asking me if she is fat, which she is clearly not. shes model material. tall skinny type ( the good skinny,not anerexic kind) she thinks shes fat but she isnt and shes not eating to lose weight and im conscerned for her health. what can i say to her when she says shes fat. or what can i do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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your not fat....ur just bigger then most girls

LoL jk dont say that...tell her shes not and shes just the right size for you or somethin like that
 

PiHiPlaya

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"Compared to who?"

Or, if you don't want to be *****slapped

Get really scientific and explain how you can never be fat because gravity is different everywhere, but use big words so she can't understand it

Orrrrrrr

My personal favorite.... Be C+F and tell her to take off all her close you you can feel every part of her body and judge her then
 

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"I require a hands on demonstration before I can come to any accurate conclusions."

:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PEACEDJ

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Let her do whatever she wants to. Sorry but you can't stop her from doing this nomatter how concerned you might be. Compliments probably won't work on her, so just tell her how harmful it is to stop eating and that guys love to see girls eat.
 

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It's funny that fat girls never ask if they're fat...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ronny_Neumonic II

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Originally posted by die4me
It's funny that fat girls never ask if they're fat...
HAHA. Was at the bar earlier and the AMOUNT of fat chicks back from holidays who think that a disgustingly shít looking tan somehow gives them the right to make me puke just by looking at them.


What ever happened to insecurity???
 

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It's funny that fat girls never ask if they're fat...
HAHAHA! It is funny because it is so f_ing true! ya, its like a catch-22: if you are fat, you know it and would NEVER talk about it; if you aren't fat and you ask, you have no confidence or are trying to get somebody to notice you.

Well, generally I think that the best solution is to say as little as possible about it, say "no"(look honest) and change the subject as quickly and smoothly as possible. I don't think that joking about it is the right thing to do all the time, not the time for CF because the girl may think that you are trying to evade. But, and there is a butt, if you have a really flirtly jokey atmosphere with the girl try some of the suggested lines and try to step up the kino to show that you like what you see, that will lower her defenses with the joke and bulid up her confidence with the kino+reassurence.

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