"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I f***ked dating wise because of my job?

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I work as a clerk for national health service mainly on the telephones. starting wage is £20000 but with overtime i pull in around £27k.

promotion is a no-no as i keep getting passed over no doubt due to my unstable character - im seen as a bit mad and a bit of a liability.

i dont own a car and i rent a studio flat which is in need of modernisation and has damp and mould in the kitchen ceiling which i treat but keeps coming back. i keep it clean and tidy but its hardly a babe magnet. despite the 42" tv.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No ... and what if the answer is yes?... then what... you are doomed to fapping forever? Just roll over like a cow and die... give up.....

or not.

Just say No .. because the only other answer is yes.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
No ... and what if the answer is yes?... then what... you are doomed to fapping forever? Just roll over like a cow and die... give up.....

or not.

Just say No .. because the only other answer is yes.
well, yes. I was kind of going to resign myself. lol. i was reading on another thread the guys were telling OP who worked for a mobile phone shop to look for another job.
 

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I see completely broke deadbeats pulling HB 9's. So no you are not screwed. Money matters very little.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy said:
I see completely broke deadbeats pulling HB 9's. So no you are not screwed. Money matters very little.
How are these guys specifically pulling these girls? Are they pulling them dating-wise, as in those girls are officially their girlfriends or is it just hook-ups, one-night stands?
 

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Here is the truth. You have to work on yourself first if you expect anyone to be attracted to you.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I see completely broke deadbeats pulling HB 9's. So no you are not screwed. Money matters very little.
i'd like more details on that, lol
 

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Agree with El Payaso.

You don't even explain why your job is a problem.
 

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MidnightCity said:
as long as you dont plan to live like this forever (for your own sake not a womans) you are fine.

some of my friends are natural alphas who slay the pvssy and still live at home with their parents. this doesnt mean they are losers or they dont have jobs etc but living with parents in your 20s is usually frowned upon in the dating game. standards are a house of cards. they dont mean jack $hit if you know how to get women wet.

i myself lived on my sisters couch during my mid 20s when i was at my worst rock bottom low and still managed to get a GF who i was with for going on 4 years.

you got your own place which is more than you can even say for most guys these days.

$hit like this is only ever a big deal if you make it one
Awesome, love to hear that
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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