"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I eating too much/too little?

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OK, so I've started a training log, training with the WBA routine. I'm 18 years old, 5'8, and 112lbs :)eek:) My body fat percentage is low, 10% or under.

I've calculated my BMR, and it's around 1500 calories. My typical daily intake now looks like this:

7:30 - Cereal with milk, blueberries and natural yoghurt (10g protein) (~400cals)

8:00 - Protein shake (50g protein) (255cals)

12:00 - Baked potato with chicken curry (30g protein) (~500cals?)

2:00 - tuna sandwich on large granary roll (30g protein) (~400cals)

5:00 - chicken curry with rice (40g protein) (600cals)

6:30 - protein shake (50g protein) (255 cals)

And I'll shove another protein shake and a few more carbs in there post-workout on training days. So I'll end up taking in about 2400 calories and 200g of protein.

Bearing in mind that following the ideas of those on this board, I'm not "bulking" - I'm just trying to steadily gain muscle. Based on my diet above, am I eating too much? It doesn't *seem* like I'm eating too much, since I'm trying to gain muscle.

*Honest* opinions here please guys :up: . I'm not trying to become a fat pig. I'm doing morning "cardio" 3x a week, by taking a small protein shake, and walking for about an hour before breakfast.

Cheers guys,

-shaun
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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your not eating too much.
but you need to eat more fruit, veg, nuts and lentals.
also swap cereal with oatmeal, baked potato with sweet potato, make that brown rice and chuck in some red meat and eggs.
 

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Like wolf said:

More vegetables

Red meat

Eggs

Apart from post-workout shake, mix your standalone protein shakes with either some fats, (olive oil, cream) or fibre, (flax, rice bran). This is to stop the insulin spike that pure whey will give you and slow digestion.

Pretty soon you're gonna get bored of your current diet. Try to rotate foods, don't eat the same thing day in day out. This is good for preventing allergies from developing.
 

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Thanks for the feedback lads :up:

Ahh, sorry, I *do* eat plenty of veggies, I've just forgotton to list them, since their calories are usually negligible and nearly burn themselves away during digestion. Breakfast is sometimes eggs and such instead, I eat plenty of beef during evening meals as well. Cottage cheese, etc. I also eat an apple with my pure whey shakes - will this have the effect of slowing down the protein's digestion (i.e. the fibre in the apple).

How much fibre should be in the shake, btw? I notice my whey powder actually has fibre already in the ingredients, about 0.6g per scoop, so when I'm taking 3 scoops (50g), that's 1.8g - is more required?

Cheers,
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you should getting in 230g of protein a day

and 230 is only counted from meat, whey or dairy. So say the rice says it has 5g of protein don't count that towards your total.

Also in your situation you could get away eating a lot of stuff that a lot of people can't. Make sure to always get your protein down first, then go to town on carbs.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and 230 is only counted from meat, whey or dairy. So say the rice says it has 5g of protein don't count that towards your total.
Yeah, sure, I'm hitting and/or breaking 200 every day. :)

Hmm, right, are we talking stuff like McD's and pizzas here bud? i.e. some junk food once in a while?

Cool, so all in all, I'm not eating too many calories - about right, really?

cheers,
-shaun
 

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Junk food yeah, but stay clear of stuff with trans fats in, (i.e. McDonalds chips).
 

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Don't worry about eating too much, but worry about eating to little. Mcdonalds and some junk are fine just don't go over board and always get a protein shake down first before pigging out at a fast food place
 
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