Am I don Juan?

[Canadien]

what does Don Juan imply? I see that almost every member gets the Don Juan title, so is this title earned just by accepting weaknesses, and coming to this forum?

Is it just about mindset, that separates me from my self six months down the road.. From my thinking, a person can only go forward, if he puts effort to improve himself, so would I have earned the title just by making an effort, or would Don Juan be only the person who can play the game perfectly, and get results?

As it stands, I understand the game and am aware of my surroundings more, but it requires time and personal growth to reach next level, should I still consider my self above AFC if I am making an honest effort to improve my social life...

 

[L777]

I think anybody who discovers this site is above AFC, and is at least a RAFC.

However, I wouldn't say you're a don juan until you consider yourself a 'complete' person. That is, you have your finances, home, social life, family life, love life, sex life etc sorted out, and, most importantly, you are HAPPY, like, truely, genuinely happy.

At 24 though, I'd be surprised if you had all that stuff in order to be honest...but you're ahead of most guys out there, just by accepting something is/was wrong taking steps to improve yourself.

 

[CalmCoolAndConfident]

Ya no man can play the game perfectly and get 100% of the girls he tries for. Maybe 80-90% but not 100.

 

[comic_relief]

what does Don Juan imply?

Read Abraham Maslow and Karl Roger's work on "Self-actualization"

http://www.performance-unlimited.com/samain.htm
http://psikoloji.fisek.com.tr/maslow/self.htm

This is what it means to be a DJ. It is actually a self-actualized person.

comic_relief