Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kk2004

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Guys i weigh 150 lbs but im realli a skinny guy. Im about 5'10. The problem i have is that i have skinny arms and legs but i have a very big gut and i have fat on my back and the sides and my obliques are very big. humungous even. When ever i sit down i can see multiple tires. My thigs are pretty fat too.

So i figure some jogging would help and some proper eating.
Right now my routine is to wake up at 8:45 I jog form 9:00 to 10:00 and i do heart rate training. Whre ill jog for 5 min walk for 10 then get my heart rate up again and jog for 5 min and walk for 10 again. And im eating the carbs early during the day and trying to eat nothing after evening time. Im eating smaller meals 6 times a day and keeping away from white bread and pastas.

I also do stomach crunches and jump rope. I do about 100 stomach crunches everyday. And then 10 min of jump rope. Then i take some weights and i do some oblique exercises. Maybe 45 min of exercise

So thats everyday. What do u guys think. ANd im drinking lots of water
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warboss Alex

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Cardio seems fine, 6 meals seems fine, no carbs after hours okay .. eat stuff in the evening though, it helps keep your metabolism up.

Stick to lean proteins (tuna, chicken breast or other lean meat) and salads/veg, you can even eat this before bed if you like.

I think the skip-rope exercises might be unnecessary; a mistake I've often made in the past is TOO MUCH cardio when trying to strip bodyfat. I know it seems silly but I'd stay stick with the morning jog/walk, keep at this for two weeks, monitor results (waistline and/or weight), if losing at a safe rate (1-2lbs per week) then all is well, keep monitoring every week - when fat loss stalls then consider adding in another cardio session.

Less is more, and given your measurements the fat should roll off pretty easily.

Good luck bro, start small so you gradually get used to it, don't worry this will do more for your fat loss than doing more.

You may also want to take fish/flax/udo's oil per day and drink a couple of litres of green tea - but just by eating sensibly and exercising as outlined above you should do fine mate.
 

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thanks

thanks for putting me on the right path
 

kk2004

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cud i

Cud i also lift weights too, or shud i keep the weightlifting and fat cutting separate.
 

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Its good to bulk first, because the muscles will eat lotsa calories and help lower your bodyfat %... u will probably weigh more too! :)

If you are a newbie to working out and such, then weighlifting might be your best bet... You should gain muscle fairly quickly, and lose fat at the same time... once you do it for a while it will become much harder to improve.

Just keep at it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If someone says 'bulk' or 'cut' again, I shall have a seizure.

:cuss:

kk, a good weightlifting routine will do your fat burning no harm, so yes, go for it.
 

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calm down alex ;) i understand your frustration.

PS. i shot you a PM over at IM, I guess I should have sent it here.
 

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You got a good routine going there kk, just remember to measure your results by inches lost rather than weight.

It's a far more reliable indicator of progress.
 
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