"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Am I doing this right, or am I just screwing up?

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Ok here's the story..There's an exgirlfriend of mine, and I'm tryin to get back together with her...We still talk and all that jazz..But the other night, I was talkin to her cousin and he invited me up to a basketball game of his, and told me she would be there..So I went to the game, and sure enough, she was there..

She practically ignored me the entire time..She sat as far away from me as possible at the game..After the game, we went to her house and she continued to ignore me..So I in turn ignored her..She stayed in her room on the computer for the rest of the night, while I sat in the other room with her mom and aunt, played UNO and had a good time..She decided she would spend the night with her cousins and we rode on the way back to my house..We didn't say a word to each other, but when I got dropped off, we both said goodbye..

My question is, did I do the right thing by ignoring her back? We probably didn't say but four words to each other the entire night..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would say that she isn't intrested.
 
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what lompa said.
 
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2 things.

1. she wanted you to initiate. how do you know she didnt want you to go in her room where she would be alone with you?
2. did you have a bad breakup? (lots of tension? unspoken words? anything negative of that sort?)

you said your trying to get back with her. your doing a horrible job at it. its like saying you want to get cut so you sign up to the gym, but instead of working out, you just stare at the machines for an hour and go home.

and most people who try to get back together with their ex is because they either had/have one-itus and dont really have any other avenues to go through.

tell me this. do you think you can find another girl? are you scared? is fear holding you back?

deep down you know you can find a girl 2x hotter, smarter, and better than your ex.
 
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