"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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am i doin it right

coffin

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ight im still a new guy to this but i read through a good bit of wat everyone has said and today i did a lil bit of kino to this girl i like along with playing around with her making fun of her and cracking jokes she seemed pretty interested in hanging around me and i also made it so that she could talk and crack jokes back i also started acting more like a guy as in making jokes and statements to let her know i do have a ****. she also texted me at random for the first time today. i also played it off that if she said like go away i woudl be like "ok" and turn around till she said something to get me back to her. all im asking is do you think im playing the right games and if i keep em up i could get her (i also was happy today instead of being depressed i am gonna start goin to the gym soon bought a multivitamin and fish oil to help with my apearence and i heard fish oil helps with depression a lil bit to)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You are doing some good things. Start exercising to help with the depression as it will make you feel better. I would also look for some other girls to talk to just in case this does not work out you have not put all your eggs in one basket. Women are never going to make you completely happy. Focus on making yourself happy first and everything will come together.
 

coffin

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yea man thats what im doin today i woke up and thought to myself i could make it happen. i made myself laugh this morning started out in a good mood and let it flow i dont know how but today i felt like a enw guy i was a **** head but at the same time nice i was funny but serious i was happy all the way around its the first time i felt like that in a real long time. i read the "bible" the night before refelcted on it and then acted i have neve been able to do this i dont know why but i really do feel like a new man who can attract teh oppposite sex instead on thinking to myself that i have no chance with any one
 
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