"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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am i doin it right

coffin

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ight im still a new guy to this but i read through a good bit of wat everyone has said and today i did a lil bit of kino to this girl i like along with playing around with her making fun of her and cracking jokes she seemed pretty interested in hanging around me and i also made it so that she could talk and crack jokes back i also started acting more like a guy as in making jokes and statements to let her know i do have a ****. she also texted me at random for the first time today. i also played it off that if she said like go away i woudl be like "ok" and turn around till she said something to get me back to her. all im asking is do you think im playing the right games and if i keep em up i could get her (i also was happy today instead of being depressed i am gonna start goin to the gym soon bought a multivitamin and fish oil to help with my apearence and i heard fish oil helps with depression a lil bit to)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are doing some good things. Start exercising to help with the depression as it will make you feel better. I would also look for some other girls to talk to just in case this does not work out you have not put all your eggs in one basket. Women are never going to make you completely happy. Focus on making yourself happy first and everything will come together.
 

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yea man thats what im doin today i woke up and thought to myself i could make it happen. i made myself laugh this morning started out in a good mood and let it flow i dont know how but today i felt like a enw guy i was a **** head but at the same time nice i was funny but serious i was happy all the way around its the first time i felt like that in a real long time. i read the "bible" the night before refelcted on it and then acted i have neve been able to do this i dont know why but i really do feel like a new man who can attract teh oppposite sex instead on thinking to myself that i have no chance with any one
 
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