"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Am I crazy?

Reichskanzler

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There is this girl that I like, but it is not a simple physical lust as is most common with High School attraction from what I gather. I find myself thinking that she is the woman that I would want to share the rest of my life with. What are the sources of these feelings? Is it natural for a man of my age (17) to be thinking and wanting to establish such a bond?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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j8snx1

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You're crazy to a certain degree. For one thing, you don't know if she's a potential partner for the future, so don't bet all-in just yet man. Most guys tend to think that the girl they meet will become their wife and crap, don't listen to your inner voice; feel her out first.

(that's just my opinion really. I pesonally don't like to think of her as a potential wife, which at times can help me in being a challenge, as well as not clinging onto her as though she was the only girl left on the planet)

Sources: Could be your inner guy fantasy thinking
Natural/Unnatural: Natural :cool:
 

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I was in same boat...for 3 years.

We went out for a month and a half...

She cheated....the entire time.

I'm still kissless.

That's how my fantasy wife story began and ended.
 
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