"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Am I crazy?

Reichskanzler

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There is this girl that I like, but it is not a simple physical lust as is most common with High School attraction from what I gather. I find myself thinking that she is the woman that I would want to share the rest of my life with. What are the sources of these feelings? Is it natural for a man of my age (17) to be thinking and wanting to establish such a bond?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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j8snx1

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You're crazy to a certain degree. For one thing, you don't know if she's a potential partner for the future, so don't bet all-in just yet man. Most guys tend to think that the girl they meet will become their wife and crap, don't listen to your inner voice; feel her out first.

(that's just my opinion really. I pesonally don't like to think of her as a potential wife, which at times can help me in being a challenge, as well as not clinging onto her as though she was the only girl left on the planet)

Sources: Could be your inner guy fantasy thinking
Natural/Unnatural: Natural :cool:
 

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I was in same boat...for 3 years.

We went out for a month and a half...

She cheated....the entire time.

I'm still kissless.

That's how my fantasy wife story began and ended.
 
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