"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I crazy?

zerolx255

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Well ya see, the only thing I really like to do is like have the chase or like the period when you try to get the girl. Then pretty much after that I find the chicks annoying and what not, I mean I'd still tap that a$$. So is it wrong to love the chase then stop.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ Alejandro

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as they say..

you'll always want something (someone???) you don't have.
 

Porky

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I've pulled half a dozen girls in the past couple of months who I subsequently lost interest in. I don't like it, but it just happens. you aren't crazy.
 
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